it's her birthday today. it took me quite some time to forget about the feud between us and finally, i sent her a text wishing her a happy birthday. i mean after all, she was a best friend and she still is a friend. it's been what...around 2 months and 3 weeks since the incident happened? and there's not even a word nor a text from her. but me sending her a text wishing her a happy birthday; does that makes me the winner or the loser now?